Tents - I still love my Henry Shire's Squall Tarp Tent, about which I've been bleating for more than four years now. It's a two-person single-skin shelter with a sewn-in floor that weighs 893g. Two very light poles, four very light stakes and, with practice, you're in business in under a minute. Henry does lighter, smaller shelters of course, but given that we have a more humid climate in the UK than Henry enjoys in the west of USA, the extar space offered by a two-person Squall over, say, a one person Tarp Tent Virga, allows for more room to turn over in the night in your sleeping bag without brushing the tent walls and getting the bag drenched in condensation. And sure a 893g two-person shelter is better than a one person 1500g shelter!
There are other light weight shelter builders in the US... Ron "Falling Water" Moak's Six Moon Designs always springs to mind ... and the shelters just continue to get lighter every year.
Look closer to home too of course, at Terra Nova's Laser series, at Bob Saunders' great lightweight tents, and others.
As for long johns, I usually carry them too if I think I'm in for a cold spell, but I carry silk versions cos they weigh Stanley Football Accrington but contribute significantly to warmer pins.
Contact lenses - I use the Bausch and Lomb 30-day lenses, which as the name suggests you leave in for up to a month, not even taking them out at night. I carry only one pair of spares, and no solutions, though I do carry spare specs in case things go udders-up. I turned to contact lenses cos I was sick and tired of trying to navigate with wet specs, a wet map case, and a wet horizon (that's also one reason why I've enjoyed walking in California!).
I'm also far too lazy to be bothered with the whole process of taking them in an out every night, so I picked the 30-day models. Not everyone has the eyes that can take them, and I freely admit to getting more than my fair share of eye infections - probably about one infection every six months, perhaps a bit less - but I like 'em {edit: - I like the lenses, not the infections! [blush] }.
Kids - our first is due in March so I expect to start trimming a lot more weight then! [w00t]